Monday, December 27, 2010

The Blessings of Christmas Receiving

A couple of weeks ago I gave a talk at church entitled "The Blessings of Christmas Receiving".  I wanted to share just a small part of it as we reflect on this Christmas past.

Christmas carries with it its own special challenge and blessing as we seek to be truly knowledgeable of and grateful for this eternally significant event of the birth of our Savior:
        --The blessing of Christmas is not in the decorations—although they are lovely.
        --It is not in the parties—although they are enjoyable.
        --It is not in the presents—although they are fun to give and get.
        --It is not even in the giving—although that’s getting closer.
The great blessing of Christmas can only come when we draw close to Christ.  The blessing of Christmas is in the receiving—when, with humility, we welcome the Savior into our homes and into our hearts.
It is my hope and prayer that the Lord would plant in each of our hearts the true spirit of Christmas, even the spirit of receiving the Savior into our lives, and that we would find ways to remind ourselves and our families of this great truth and blessing: that while we live in this world of sin, “where meek souls will receive Him, still the dear Christ enters in.” 

Saturday, December 18, 2010

Trouble at the Inn

I wanted to share with you one of my favorite Christmas stories.  It has been around since 1968 and captures the spirit of Christmas in a sweet, childlike way.  You might find this fun to read to your children.  I hope you enjoy it.


Trouble at the Inn
by
Dina Donohue
   For years now whenever Christmas pageants are talked about in a certain little town in the Midwest, someone is sure to mention the name of Wallace Purling. Wally’s performance in one annual production of the Nativity play has slipped into the realm of legend. But the old timers who were in the audience that night never tire of recalling exactly what happened.
   
   Wally was nine that year and in the second grade, though he should have been in the fourth. Most people in town knew that he had difficulty in keeping up. He was big and clumsy, slow in movement and mind. Still, Wally was well liked by the other children in his class, all of whom were smaller than he, though the boys had trouble hiding their irritation if the uncoordinated Wally asked to play ball with them.

   Most often they’d find a way to keep him off the field, but Wally would hang around anyway—not sulking, just hoping. He was always a helpful boy, a willing and smiling one, and the natural protector, paradoxically, of the underdog. Sometimes if the older boys chased the younger ones away, it would always be Wally who’d say, “Can’t they stay? They’re no bother.”

   Wally fancied the idea of being a shepherd with a flute in the Christmas pageant that year, but the play’s director, Miss Lumbard, assigned him to a more important role. After all, she reasoned, the Innkeeper did not have too many lines, and Wally’s size would make his refusal of lodging to Joseph more forceful.

   And so it happened that the usual large, partisan audience gathered for the town’s Yuletide extravaganza of the staffs and creches, of beards, crowns, halos and a whole stageful of squeaky voices. No one on stage or off was more caught up in the magic of the night than Wallace Purling. They said later that he stood in the wings and watched the performance with such fascination that from time to time Miss Lumbard had to make sure he didn’t wander onstage before his cue.

   Then the time came when Joseph appeared, slowly, tenderly guiding Mary to the door of the inn. Joseph knocked hard on the wooden door set into the painted backdrop. Wally the Innkeeper was there, waiting. “What do you want?” Wally said, swinging the door open with a brusque gesture.
“We seek lodging.”
“Seek it elsewhere.” Wally looked straight ahead but spoke vigorously. “The inn is filled.”
“Sir, we have asked everywhere in vain. We have traveled far and are very weary.”
“There is no room in this inn for you.” Wally looked properly stern.
“Please, good innkeeper, this is my wife, Mary. She is heavy with child and needs a place to rest. Surely you must have some small corner for her. She is so tired.”

   Now, for the first time, the Innkeeper relaxed his stiff stance and looked down at Mary. With that, there was a long pause, long enough to make the audience a bit tense with embarrassment.
“No! Begone!” the prompter whispered from the wings.
“No!” Wally repeated automatically. “Begone!”

   Joseph sadly placed his arm around Mary, and Mary laid her head upon his shoulder, and the two of them started to move away. The Innkeeper did not return inside his inn, however. Wally stood there in the doorway, watching the forlorn couple. His mouth was open, his brow creased with concern, his eyes filling unmistakably with tears.

   “Don’t go, Joseph,”  Wally called out. “Bring Mary back.” And Wallace Purling’s face grew into a bright smile. “You can have my room.”

   Some people in town thought that the pageant had been ruined. Yet there were others—many others—who considered it the most Christmas of all Christmas pageants they had ever seen.



Monday, November 22, 2010

Arizona was a nice break

Our 12 day trip to Arizona (4-15 Nov) was a delight in so many ways.
--Visiting with Aaron, Trina and their 7 children was so much fun; we ate out, went to the Old Tucson Movie studio lot, the colossal caves and a church primary dinner.  Here are some photos of that part of our vacation.



--We also had a delightful visit with Mike and Melissa along with Jacob, Wyatt, and Tyson and Blake (Melissa's boys).  We hung out a lot, enjoying getting to know Melissa whom we came to really like and appreciate.  One of the highlights (for us, not for Mike and Melissa) was watching the Seattle Sea Hawks wax the Arizona Cardinals.  We also ate out at a nice Mexican restaurant as well as BBQ.  Here's some more photos.


We are grateful for the time each of these families made for us--we truly felt welcomed and loved.

Monday, November 1, 2010

Wouldn't it be nice?

Just some random thoughts as this hectic and at times brutal political campaign season comes to an end today.  Wouldn't it be nice if:
1.   Civility were the rule and not the exception.
2.   Campaigns were run strictly on the issues and not on personal attacks and innuendo
3.   Political parties were fined every time an ad was run which shaded the truth
4.   We could elect grown-ups from both parties who understood the value of healthy compromise and collaboration
5.   The minority party was treated as the "loyal opposition" instead of the enemy
6.   Money weren't a factor in any of our political races (yes, I understand that giving money is a form of freedom of speech; it also tends to be a corrupting element as well)
7.   The campaign season didn't start the day after the election
8.   When we elected a politician we also elected their mother to sit beside them and pull their ear when they got mean or stupid

Well, I guess that's it.  Let the 2012 campaign season begin!!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Red Letter Day

Today Melba and I went to the temple for our first quarterly high priest temple day.  Although only a handful of people from our ward attended, it was very special for us because this was the first time Melba has been to the temple in over two years. During that time I always went alone due to her various health challenges which prevented her from enjoying temple worship.  It was truly wonderful to be together as we performed the vicarious service for those unable to do so themselves.  As we sat in the celestial room we quietly pondered the things of eternity and the Lord's great plan of happiness that promises that our marriage union will continue beyond the grave if we endure in our discipleship.  That is a source of great peace to us.

Monday, October 4, 2010

A Typical Month in the Life of a [OCD] Retiree

In the five years since I retired I have found that for me happiness and contentment comes from being fully engaged in life and its many opportunities.  No fishin' hole for me, no sir.  Take a look at my "to do" list for October.

October 2010 Master Task List

Church
--Home teach my 8 families
--Compile and submit high priest home teaching report for Sept '10
--Update the ward MLS data base on home teaching
--Visit the sick and needy
--Coordinate high priest quarterly temple day, 9 Oct
--Hold weekly high priest leadership coordination meeting with my assistants and secretary
--Conduct quarterly stewardship interviews with the 10 home teachers I supervise
--Generate family names to take to the temple
--Participate as assistant temple shift coordinator in weekly coordination meeting via telephone
--Work on personal writings "Why I Believe"
--Hold daily personal devotions and scripture study

Family/Friends
--Work on pictorial tribute to my mother
--Work on "In the event of my death..." to do list for Melba should I suddenly expire
--Work on "Notes to My Grandchildren" writing
--Renew Melba's passport
--Start thinking about Christmas gifts
--Update grand-kids' photos on piano and mantle

Home/yard maintenance
--Mow and edge lawn each week until it shuts down for the winter
--Finish planting our spring bulbs (Shawn the gardener's assignment)
--Cut up pile of branches in trash area
--Finish demossing the roof (Shawn)
--Clean patio brick to remove moss and mold (Shawn)
--Prune front yard bushes (Shawn)

Emergency preparation
--Restock 72 hour kits
--Increase water storage by 10 gallons
--Move long term storage cans back upstairs

Other
--Practice guitar (acoustic, classical or electric) and banjo
--Play video games for relaxation
--Exercise daily--walking, strength training with free weights

Above all else, consider my eternal sweetheart first and foremost, making time for her and attending to her needs


From this list I compile a weekly list and from that a daily list.

"If you fail to plan, you plan to fail"

"Plan your life, then live your plan."

"If ye are prepared, ye shall not fear."

Friday, October 1, 2010

"I'm feeling fine...thanks for asking...OUCH, OUCH, OUCH!!"

Well, the deed is done.  On Wednesday past Dr. Steve Snow (a personal friend from my high council days) did an arthroscopy on my right knee to repair a tear in the meniscus.  Total time from entering the surgical clinic to leaving was three hours.  I was feeling fine the rest of the day and for half of yesterday--really thought that I was one of the few who would have relatively minor post-surgical pain.  Then, yesterday afternoon the surgical anesthesia finally wore off...and WHAM, the pain came with a vengeance.  Not the worst pain I've ever had (my back spasm years ago in Virginia is the all time winner) but pain nonetheless.

So out came the Oxycodone and things settled down although last night I had a hard time getting to sleep even with my Tylenol PM and seemed to wake up every hour or so throughout the night.  Interesting.  Wonder if the pain meds caused that.  Arla or Laura, either one of you have a thought on that?